SUCCESS STORIES
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STRESS MANAGEMENT
Stress creates unhealthy biological reactions, and prolonged stress can lead to both physical and mental health breakdowns.
WHAT IS NLP?
Neuro-Linguistic Programming is a bit
like an 'owners manual'
for your brain!
About Me
“What makes Becki different is that she has overcome her own significant challenges in life and lives what she talks”
There are many guru's claiming 'I can change your life', my clear message is 'You can change your own life when you know how and with the tools in place to do so'. Since I can remember I have always been fascinated by what makes people different. I suffered with low confidence and had very little self-esteem for over half my early life. At times even picking up the phone was a challenge. This led to making many mistakes in my twenties and I achieved expert status in the field of failure in many areas of my life.
This was magnified following an accident that left me unable to talk for three years. Unknown to me then, this was the beginning of some remarkable ‘training’. During those years I spent all my time in silence watching people interact, and developed an amazing skill to read finite body language. A massive 70% of our communication is body language. Reading people's behaviour and finite body language became my way of staying connected to the world.
When my voice returned to full strength I quickly discovered that just telling people what their problem was and giving them the solution was counteractive to them actually changing anything! Over the next ten years I focused on transforming my own life and supported hundreds of others to make positive changes in their lives too. In 2006 I had an epiphany and quit everything. I then began professional training in skills that close the gap between the latent potential I naturally recognise in people and their current reality in life.
Training
- Life Coach L.C.H dip
- NLP Master Practitioner MNLP
- Master Hypnosis
- Executive Coach CMEC
- Horse-whispering
- Neuro-repatterning
- Cognitive Re-imprinting
- Certified Results Coach
- Sports Performance Coach
- Thought Pattern management
The training has never ended and will never end. I am always on a quest to learn new tools and techniques that help people to be happy and successful. I have trained under some of the world's pioneers in transformation and have developed a network of experts in neuro-science to keep me on top of current research.
I am an avatar for showing people HOW to make the impossible possible. The biggest obstacle I have to first overcome is educating people to understand that incredible transformation really is possible.
Having significantly transformed my own life using these tools I am constantly using them to help me remain balanced, happy and to get out of my comfort zone. I believe that because I have lived on both sides of the coin this gives me a core understanding of where my clients are, and total confidence in my professional tools. My clients call me 'the people whisperer' because of my ability to understand them better than they know themselves.
A diagnosis of skin cancer in Oct 09 followed by five operations was the ultimate test for me that you can choose how you respond emotionally to anything. It was a giant reminder that life is a balance of mind, spirit, and body and to make the most of every day.
For fun I love enjoying the company of interesting people and the simple things in life.
I regularly update my BLOG which can be found by clicking the below button:
If you would like to know more about how working with me could help you, or if you have any questions please email me becki@beckihoulston.com
10 Things you didn't know about me
I dislike clowns
My favourite dessert is anything with custard
I have four brothers
I once got my hand stuck in a cash point machine and had to be rescued
I am a grade 8 flautist
I’ve been diving with
great white sharks
My first car was called
Colin
I have been escorted by NYPD into Manhattan whilst eating cheesy crisps.
I am half welsh
I have landed a plane with passengers on-board
What do my clients say about me...
“I am a young woman who, because of a life threatening illness, was thrown into the challenge of taking her life back. I have tried all sorts of different alternative therapies and also a few incompetent psychologists, who managed to rake my little world up so violently, that it by no means helped in any way at all the acknowledge the fact that I too was also a fantastic person with lots of possibilities.
In all honesty, I really tried so hard but ended up by repeating the same old destructive patterns. It was also the same with regard to nearly every aspect of my life. My family, my daughter, my social relationships, relationships with men I was in my own very narrow and limited cul-de-sac that didn'thave any RED LIGHTS saying 'Wrong Way'. No, I was alone with my very inadequate and confused navagation system.
I contacted Becki, it really was a journey ,every time and, I was always filled with a sensation that I did possess the possibilities of taking back my own power - the power to my own life. I found it fascinating, that this possibility had always been right in front of me - I just hadn't recognised it! In each and every session my words were placed into a frame, like a picture, and I was asked to find new things and colours in the 'picture'. What did I want to do? What was it that stopped me? I was guided out so I could see the different angles and, again, the wonderful discovery that it was me who could choose what I did or did not want. Amazing. After each session I was given an exercise to work on until the next appointment. I could always get in touch between times to report the results of the different assignments. I couldn't just talk anymore - I was forced to act on my words. Scary but very effective. If I was doubtful - Becki was no further away than an e-mail with yet another clue for me.
The different exercises were hard in the beginning but, after a while, a new thought pattern started to seep through. Things became easier, the bad destructive choices were replaced with the new - because my barriers and limitations, goals and acknowledgement of worth had been seen and now recognised with great results.
Today, at last, I have more freedom. I am still on my exciting journey - the difference being that I now want it and have the necessary courage to achieve it. I am now the happy, smiling, serious person who also appreciates herself more. I am also enjoying my life far more than I did for just 6 months ago. I don't have those constant negative emotions or create conflicts when I simply choose me. It is not necessary anymore, because my decisions and choices are taken in a calm manner. I have also discovered that I can use my full potential again - positively and with all the possibilities I require.”
Anne, Denmark - Civil Servant
